此资料由网络收集而来，如有侵权请告知上传者立即删除。资料共分享，我们负责传递知识。TED英语演讲：订一个小目标不要告诉别人当你决心要做一件事，会向周围人大声宣告你的目标吗然后带着大家的鼓励，雄纠纠气昂昂去实现它DerekSivers说，千万别，确定人生目标时，我们可以在心里想像成功的一刻，但是千万不要说出来，最好还是将目标保密吧。心理学测试证明，说出目标会降低你实现目标的行动力。下面是小编为大家收集关于TED英语演讲：订一个小目标不要告诉别人，欢迎借鉴参考。英文原文Everyone,pleasethinkofyourbiggestpersonalgoal.Forreal--youcantakeasecond.You'vegottofeelthistolearnit.Takeafewsecondsandthinkofyourpersonalbiggestgoal,okayImaginedecidingrightnowthatyou'regoingtodoit.Imaginetellingsomeonethatyoumeettodaywhatyou'regoingtodo.Imaginetheircongratulations,andtheirhighimageofyou.Doesn'titfeelgoodtosayitoutloudDon'tyoufeelonestepcloseralready,likeit'salreadybecomingpartofyouridentityWell,badnews:youshouldhavekeptyourmouthshut,becausethatgoodfeelingnowwillmakeyoulesslikelytodoit.Therepeatedpsychologytestshaveproventhattellingsomeoneyourgoalmakesitlesslikelytohappen.Anytimeyouhaveagoal,therearesomestepsthatneedtobedone,someworkthatneedstobedoneinordertoachieveit.Ideallyyouwouldnotbesatisfieduntilyou'dactuallydonethework.Butwhenyoutellsomeoneyourgoalandtheyacknowledgeit,psychologistshavefoundthatit'scalleda&socialreality.&Themindiskindoftrickedintofeelingthatit'salreadydone.Andthenbecauseyou'vefeltthatsatisfaction,you'reless此资料由网络收集而来，如有侵权请告知上传者立即删除。资料共分享，我们负责传递知识。motivatedtodotheactualhardworknecessary.(Laughter)Sothisgoesagainstconventionalwisdomthatweshouldtellourfriendsourgoals,rightSotheyholdustoit.So,let'slookattheproof.1926:KurtLewin,founderofsocialpsychology,calledthis&substitution.&1933:WeraMahlerfoundwhenitwasacknowledgedbyothers,itfeltrealinthemind.1982,PeterGollwitzerwroteawholebookaboutthis,andin2023,hedidsomenewteststhatwerepublished.Itgoeslikethis:163peopleacrossfourseparatetests.Everyonewrote...
