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DealingwithHonestyIssues（对待诚信问题）TASKOBJECTIVE（任务目标）Inthisunit,you’llbeabletoaccomplishthefollowingtask.Learnhowtoorganizeandgetinvolvedinaneffectivedebate.TASKPREPARATION（任务准备）1.Listentoatalkshowdiscussingliesandfinishthefollowingtable.LIES1.Typesoflies:1).2).2.Differencebetweenthetwo:Theformeristoprotect3);whilethelatteristoprotect4).3.Liedetection:Watchoutwhenhedeviatesfrom5).TapescriptsYouaregoingtohearatalkshowaboutlies.Host:Okay,sowhatcantellingalittlewhiteliedotoyourrelationship?RobbieLudwig,psychotherapistandcontributingeditorforCookieMagazineisheretoanswerthat,alongwithbodylanguageexpertJennieDriver,goodmorningtobothofyou.RobbieandJennie:Goodmorning.Host:OK,we’vealltoldthelies,youknow,“Iloveyourhair”,“youdon’tlookfat”,blahblah...,allthosethings.Isthatsowrong?Robbie:It’snotsowrong,Imeanwhatawhitelieisit’sreallyprotectingsomebodyelse’sfeeling,andthedifferencebetweenahardlieandawhitelieisahardlieisdonetoprotectyourself.Host:AndsometimesIjustthinkit’scalledmanners.Ifsomebodyasksme“doyoulikemydress?”Orlet’spretendit.Someonecooksamealforyou,thechickenisdry,Iwouldjustchokeitdownandsaythankyou,youknow.Yeah.Butwhencanthosewhiteliesstepoverthelineandbecometroublesome?Jennie:Wellifyouarebasicallydoingthingstodeceiveanotherperson,thatwillruinyourrelationshipbecausebasicallyrelationshipsarebasedon“Icantrustyou”,andifyoucan’ttrusttheotherpersonthenyouhavenorelationship.Host:NowIdon’tactuallylikethispoll,andmostpeopleinthepollsaid“look,it’sokay,it’sokaytolie”,can’trememberthepercentage,butitwas,itwasabigpercentagethatsaid“itwasokay”,therewas47percentsaid“it’sok”and23percentsay“it’snotharmful”.ButyouarethepersonIdon’twannalieinfrontof,becauseyoucantellwhensomeoneislying.Ok,sotellme,givemesomewaysthatyoucantellifsomeoneislying.Jennie:It’sinteresting,whenitcomestoalittlewhitelie,it’sveryhardtodetectdeception,becausetheyarenotgonnabenervousaboutitbecausetheyarejustdoingittobenicetoyou.So1theyarenotgonnaexhibitsomeofthesi...